How to properly tease children

Release time : 05/25/2025 09:30:02

The Chinese practice of tickling children to make them laugh has been a persistent issue. This year, two tragic incidents involving children drinking alcohol were reported in Guangxi and Sichuan. Both resulted from parents tickling their children to drink, leading to secondary brain injuries in one case and death from alcohol poisoning in the other case.

This is a topic worth pondering.

There is nothing wrong with teasing children as a way to express their love, but attention must be paid. So how to tease children correctly? How to correctly tease children Every child is an angel. For child controllers, teasing children is more natural, but you must grasp the limits to tease children, otherwise it will easily lead to common tragedies in the news. So how should you tease children correctly? First, respect children. Each child is an individual with an independent personality. Playing with children is not about treating children as toys or playthings, but about allowing children to learn knowledge and grow up healthily.

Second, to entertain children, we must be motivated by a kind of love, so safety must be put first! Third, teasing children is to make children happy, rather than making them cry. Adults find it interesting to watch.

Misunderstanding about teasing children What are the wrong ways to tease children that may cause harm to children?

So what are the misunderstandings in teasing children?

First, pinch the nose. Some babies have flat noses, and adults often want to make them laugh by pinching their noses.

Doing so is not conducive to the health of the baby, because the baby's nasal mucosa is delicate and rich in blood vessels. External force can cause damage or bleeding, and even concurrent infection.

2. The grownups hold the baby's wrists and whirl around quickly.

The baby turned so dizzy that he couldn't stand steadily even when he was placed on the ground.

This way of playing method is the most likely to strain your baby's joints, causing dislocation or subluxation of the elbow and shoulder joints.

Third, the adult holds the baby's chin with both hands and lifts it up, making the baby laugh. This is the so-called "radish pulling".

This kind of play can easily strain your baby's neck and damage their spinal column.

Fourth, flying high means that an adult grasps the baby's neck with one hand and the baby's ankle with the other, throws it up with force, and turns it quickly in circles.

Some people also hold the baby's butt with their hands and throw it up high.

Babies are often amused by such games because they are fresh and exciting.

This way of treating babies not only easily causes the baby to fall, but may also cause "shaking syndrome" and lead to cerebral palsy.

Fifth, touching the genitals. Dad likes to tease the baby to find his own "penis", or pinch the baby's "penis" with his hands.

This form of humor not only lacks decorum but also has adverse effects on the baby's health.

When interacting with children, it is important to be mindful of several points. Every child is a gift from the heavens and spending time with them should be filled with respect and treating them as playmates rather than mere objects. Love for these little beings is essential.

When interacting with children, it is essential to be sincere and enthusiastic, and never playfully deceive them.

When entertaining children, it's important to pay attention to a few things. Firstly, respect the psychological characteristics of children; innocence is a natural aspect of their nature, and we should not use it as an opportunity for amusement.

2. Children imitate adults.

Some behaviors that endanger security can harm children's physical and mental health.

Therefore, pay attention to your words and demeanor.

3. Children are extremely vulnerable to psychological harm, which can cause long-term issues in their development if they suffer too much psychological trauma.

The "Chinese Way of Laughing at Children" has become a widespread social practice among parents. However, these two news stories about the tragic consequences caused by this way of laughing at children have recently been widely circulated on social media. Although these cases are extreme, the insensitivity to children's feelings exhibited in such behavior is prevalent in China and has become a bad habit! For example, the following methods should not be encouraged: Firstly, verbal mockery.

Your mom gave birth to a brother, and she doesn't love you anymore.

Or maybe: "Your mom isn't coming back."

Young children lack the capacity for independent thought and take seriously jokes told by adults. They feel fearful and unsafe when they hear such remarks, leading to crying. However, adults delight in exploiting this vulnerability for their amusement.

Second, provoke the child to drink.

It is something that every parent should know that minors are not allowed to drink, but many parents are playful and tease children in their own or other people's homes to drink, which leads to tragedy in the news! Third, play the penis.

Playing a child's penis is a serious mistake.

The child's sexual organs are developing and sexual psychology is taking shape. At this stage, it is not advisable to touch the sexual organs too much with your hands. Too much touching the sexual organs will cause precocious puberty and even cause sexual psychological disorders. Leave a psychological shadow.

Fourth, seduce children to do stupid or lying things.

Such as smoking and swearing.

Some parents use this as entertainment, but they don't know that it has a great impact on children's physical and mental development.

How to avoid China style teasing of children The phenomenon of China style teasing of children is very common. Many parents may not realize it, but in fact this way of teasing children can easily affect the formation of children's character and physical and mental development. So what should you do when your child encounters China style teasing? How to avoid China teasing? First of all, as parents of children, the primary task is to understand how to balance interpersonal relationships. If you find that your child is being teased, you must face it wisely on the premise of respecting others.

Secondly, children should be taught how to politely refuse and protect themselves.

Mutual respect in interpersonal relationships and civilization and courtesy to others are positive education that parents should give their children.

When a child is teased, parents should remind the child in a timely manner, guide the child correctly, face it with wisdom, and guide the child how to face similar problems.

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